I also do not tell myself that I HAVE TO be 100% Wai. If I am at an event and there is food which might happen once per week or once per month. I might eat 2-4 bites just to taste. but mostly, I choose to eat wai because it feels good and it's delicious, too. but i have a history of being a social outcast when it comes to food and i realize that i love feeling connected and surrounded by people and fun. it relaxes me and actually leads to better food habits, overall. it's a small price to pay. and if there are 'fobidden foods', i tend to feel trapped and want to act out. now i go into the health food store and say to myself " if there is anything i want, then i will have a little. i really never want anything but what feels good and thats fruit and fat!!
I also used to overeat out of boredom and when tired which probably stressed my body out and made me mistrust my inner voice, which leads to overeating again and then i would try and control it again with my mind by undereating. its very common for women to do that. You will learn to be in touch with yourself and be more kind to your body, too.
